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« Reply #330 on: March 02, 2010, 12:18:48 AM » |
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Dude, you are amazing, this is why you rock. Ah, to think of the mayhem me and you would get into if we were running around together.
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« Reply #331 on: March 02, 2010, 03:07:48 AM » |
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Oooooooh yeah... Haha!!!! I've just done the whole college party thing, and I've had to come up with some clever ideas to get people out of a room. So far, that's the most efficient one.
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« Reply #332 on: March 11, 2010, 04:24:27 AM » |
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Haha, so tonight me and a couple friends decided to go night hiking, which is illegal considering the parks close at dusk, but ah well we use to do it all the time last summer and never got in trouble, so anyways at midnight we're all driving, and this 4th car suddenly speeds up and follows us, and I realize it's a cop, but he eventually turns away.
So me and my friends park at the park, go hiking, have a good time, and on our way back to our cars we through the trees headlights of a car pulling into the parking lot and stopping. Then a bright flashlight, so we're like, shit, and we head back into the forest, wait a bit, and head out and much to our relief no tickets or cops or anything of that nature. So we head over to steak n shake to get some good 2am food.
Anyways, while we're sitting there I get a phone call from my dad and instantly my heart drops, because I know where this is going. My dad's a cop and works 3rd shift so I know he's working, which means i know somethings up. I answer, and he's like, "Where are you?" And I'm like "steak n shake." And he's like, "were you over at southwestway park?" and I was like, "yeah..." and he was like, "You know that's illegal? I'm getting calls from every cop on the west side asking me if you're my son."
Apparantly that 4th car that followed us ran my plates first, and I assume it's the same car that checked our cars out at the park. My dad didn't seem to mad on the phone, he was just like, "that's a quick way to get your car towed." Luckily, I assume because I'm his son, they didn't tow mine or my friends' cars. I'm just waiting to see how the conversation goes in the morning between me and him lol. I just think it's funny how quickly word gets around between cops, he's working on the east side, and some cops run my plates on the west side, and somehow link me to him. Crazy stuff.
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« Reply #333 on: March 11, 2010, 09:27:27 AM » |
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Oh geeeez, I didn't know that cops actually did that (the favoritism to family stuff). You lucky **** o____o;;;
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« Reply #334 on: March 11, 2010, 10:03:00 AM » |
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It depends on the cop, and the crime, obviously a lot of stuff they can't let you off on, and even small stuff a lot of times they don't, my mom still got a speeding ticket lol. It really just depends I guess on the mood of the cop, the crime, and maybe if they personally know your family member in the police force. I just got lucky last night lol, I'm not about to test how far my dad being a cop can get me though, especially since he's let me know that he's told everyone that if I got caught doing something to lock me up like everyone else lol.
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« Reply #335 on: March 12, 2010, 11:38:36 AM » |
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"Hey thanks dad... Jerk..." Lol!!
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« Reply #336 on: March 17, 2010, 02:19:58 PM » |
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If one of my parents were a cop, I think I'd be a little more law abiding... just because I don't want them to know what I'm doing <_<;
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« Reply #337 on: March 20, 2010, 04:50:33 AM » |
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Eh, just random updates. Coworker girl asked me on a date for my birthday, we're going out to dinner. Me and her also went to a concert tonight together, it wasn't officially a "date" but we ended up holding hands and what not. I thought a lot about it, and I realized that while I think she's cute yes, I could never like her romantically. She's a rebound, and I know that now, but just because she's a rebound it's no reason I shouldn't have fun. Especially because of the next bit of news...
One of my friends, who's still friends with Sam, and even though he hangs out with her and talks to her more than I'd like it's none of my business, anyways today he told me that there was something that happened with Sam that he couldn't tell me, in fact he never planned to tell me but my other friend found out but didn't know the details so anyways, I had to pull the bro card out to get my friend to tell me since Sam made him promise not to tell anyone, especially me.
Before her and that guy started dating (their relationship lasted less than a day), they had sex. Apparantly she had a pregnancy scare and had to get plan B. Then she found out that the guy was only using her for sex.
I knew that she was having sex with other guys, but I never actually knew, so it kind of hurt a lot to KNOW, but eh, it's whatever. I miss her still like crazy, but I don't miss HER anymore, I just miss what she represented. And I hate that I NEVER fall for girls, like out of all the girls ive dated I've only really liked 2, and both of those girls broke my heart. So what she represented when we dated was this perfect girl I was so in love with who was my best friend, and once again she showed me that if I fall for a girl, eventually I'll get my heart broke.
I don't know, I'm a jealous guy in reality, so maybe its my jealousy that's getting to me about Sam, knowing that another guy got her, and almost got her pregnant. Or maybe it's just my hatred for how she became everything she stood against. Either way, it's going to bother me for a while, but I know that's normal and it'll pass.
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« Reply #338 on: March 20, 2010, 08:02:45 PM » |
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*hug for jer* :<
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« Reply #339 on: March 25, 2010, 02:21:24 PM » |
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Well...I guess no story is ever simple, so yesterday the twist in the life of Jeremy Torres happened.
I was at work, reading the newspaper, doing my thing when I get a text. Not a big deal, probably one of my friends asking me what's up or something, so I look at my phone to see who it was and BAM. My heart drops. It drops fast.
It was Samantha.
I havn't spoken to that girl in 4 months since the breakup, and honestly planned to go the rest of my life without ever speaking to her. I had to re-read the name to make sure it was her. All it said was
"Heyy, can I ask you an honest question and get an honest answer?"
So I said yeah, and she asked me if I ever cheated on her at any point because she didn't want to remember a lie, so I told her no, and she told me the same went for her too, and she told me that since we were talking mature and stress free that she was sorry for the way things ended. Now she did make clear that this wasn't a "lets get back together talk", she knows me and her would never work, but she said she enjoyed talking to me as a friend, and she wasn't sure why.
She also said a part of her would always care about me. So we texted back and forth and she was telling me advice for the next girl, yatta yatta and she asked me about the girls since her, and I told her I've been on dates and she asked me if I've had sex since her, and I told her yeah, there was 1 girl and it was awful (that 1 night stand that I had to leave cause it was so bad) and she told me she had sex since me too.
Anyways, we texted all night and she told me to text her tomorrow if I wanted, and honestly I planned to, but not until like tomorrow night to not sound desperate. Anyways she texts me today in the afternoon telling me her best friend thinks that it's a bad idea for her to talk to me again because she's afraid she'll fall back into a habit, and I tell her no cause we both know that we'll never be together again, and we've just been texting normal...like how our lives have been what's been going on.
It's wierd.
I'm not sure if I absolutely hate her for this for making me miss her so much more or if I love her for this for giving me some decent closure that I needed. I don't even know where any of this is going or how it's going to end. All I know is it really caught me off guard...
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« Reply #340 on: March 25, 2010, 03:38:54 PM » |
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It's an awkward place to be with an ex, but there are a lot worse things. Just.... be careful. We'll be here to help you through it if things go badly, but we'd much rather prefer to not have to.
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« Reply #341 on: March 25, 2010, 03:49:01 PM » |
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How do you feel about her wanting to talk to you again? :<
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« Reply #342 on: March 25, 2010, 11:37:33 PM » |
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How do I feel? At first I wasn't sure, I was shocked, but we texted again all day, and a part of me hates it, because most of me loves it. I'm being sucked right back into her, the more we talked, we asked each other questions, she told me she knew I had been going on dates with Ellen, I told her I knew about her and Daniel, and she told me the story with him, how they had sex once, and he told her he didn't want to do it again, then a week later he told her he was sorry and liked her, they started going out, they had sex again and the next day he broke up with her, and two weeks later they had sex one more time that resulted in a pregnancy scare where she had to use plan B.
She said that's when they decided to just be good friends because she knew that was his game, and she didn't want to have sex without love again.
Anyways, throughout the day occasionally it would go from friend talk to serious talk, like, at first she made a secret pact with me saying in 2 years if we both feel like something is missing we'll try it again, but then it was like she was debating whether to try it again, not really she kept saying she didn't want to be together again, but when I asked her if that was the truth she said of course it wasn't or she wouldn't have started to text me again, but that we won't because she knows it's for the best.
I guess I'm happy because I have missed her, and we're talking again, but I'm sad because I know that nothing will come of it, that it's just talk, and that when this talk ends, which it will have to someway or another I can't imagine us just being...friends. Well, when it ends, most likely I'll be sad again, the sadness that I spent 4 months fighting, but until then, I guess I just got to keep texting her.
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« Reply #343 on: March 26, 2010, 12:48:41 AM » |
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That makes me think of a recent episode of How I Met Your Mother. The basic premise was that people would get "hooked" by someone as a sort of backup boyfriend/girlfriend by saying stuff like "I want to date you, but not right now" or "We'll date when I break up with this person I'm seeing". Try not to get "hooked" again. If this continues, try to be the "hook"er, not the "hook"ee.
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« Reply #344 on: March 26, 2010, 01:26:42 AM » |
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haha, oh crap! She could be hooking me as part of a plan! I'll try to resist, but I'm weak to be honest lol. When we talk again, I'll try to spin it around and become the hooker somehow, but that won't work so in reality I'm just going to be all nonchalant when I text her like it's no big deal, like she's nothing then maybe I'll be as cool as Neil Patrick Harris
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